There was a story about two woman working at a church program for girls. They saw a woman that disappeared into the wall. One saw an old grey haired woman, the other saw a young blonde. It was the Same Spirit. A spirit can show you herself as old when she died, or her as a young woman. Some present in their death state, other times as a younger person. This spirit showed each woman herself in different times of her life. So facinating, the projections from spirit to mind., great story.